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Many elderly live on fixed incomes, do not have someone to look out for them, and may be living in a nursing home or an assisted living facility. The number of people reaching the status of elderly is increasing. Although countries differ as to what percentage of their population is elderly right now, the US’s elderly population will double in 25 years. According to an article in the New York Times, the number of children under 15 will be outnumbered by the elderly by 2050, across the world.
My boys need to feel comfortable around the elderly. Not only that, they need to learn the value that the elderly bring to society and our communities.
Teach Children to Be Mindful
of the Elderly in the Community
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Help a senior in your neighborhood or church congregation. Be open to asking if help is needed at home with minor projects, cleaning, or offering rides to the grocery story.
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Offer to pay for a meal for a senior at a restaurant. Our local hamburger join is the hot spot for seniors in our community. The boys are always excited to offer to play for a meal!
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Be aware of when you need to slow down with your children and let an elderly person pass you instead of rushing past them. Give them your time and your attention just as this little boy did on The Good Long Road.
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During holiday time, look for opportunities to interact with the elderly as these times can be particularly lonely. During the last Memorial Day weekend, we helped clean gravesites of relatives for several elderly patrons that didn’t have the resources to do it themselves.
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Sign up to deliver with Meals on Wheels (once you complete the short required training, you can bring your children along for the meal deliveries).
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Adopt a grandparent, whether a neighbor or a resident in an assisted living facility. Visit on a regular basis.
Service Ideas to Help the Elderly
Living in Facilities:
Great for Younger & Older Kids
1) Try focusing on talking about how your family would like to visit.
Simple Ideas!
- Decorate doors for a holiday or birthdays.
- Create cards and pictures to drop off or take when visiting.
- If you want to make a long term commitment and would rather send letters and packages, Senior Angels is perfect!
Let’s Eat!
- Attend a lunch at retirement home, play a game with them, and leave a nice treat or note for the staff.
- Hold a canned food or toiletry drive for key items that nursing homes need for their residents.
Entertainment Time!
- Put on a variety or talent show! The kids can sing their favorite songs, tell their favorite knock-knock jokes, and share their special talents!
- Sponsor a dance party for a nursing home where residents and children can dance to the residents’ favorite songs
- Consider completing a service project for a nursing home during a birthday party. We did this, invited our friends, and had a marvelous time!
- Donate games or supplies for birthday celebrations.
- With friends, go sing at nursing homes, particularly during holiday times.
Service Ideas to Help the Elderly
Living in Facilities:
Great for Older Kids
- Sign-up to be a reader for a resident in a nursing home.
- Become a pen pal with a senior.
- Help a senior use the computer.
- Volunteer to record a senior’s favorite memories or family history.
- Help preserve cherished photos.
Create Taggie blankets for seniors. Use the same idea for making a child’s Taggie blanket. Sew tags and other items for hands to manipulate on the blanket: zippers, buttons, and long ribbons to tie. Add a long tie on each side so it can be tied to the wheelchair. Taggie blankets for Seniors, designed by Sylvia of Flying Stitches
Want to see more examples on how to serve the elderly population? Check out the Pinterest Board: Serve the Elderly
Would love to hear ideas you have on serving the elderly!
I love this post, and it reminded me that I have been meaning to show up at an elderly woman's house in our small town and do some cleaning for her. She has a large house and limited income and has mentioned to me her struggles with cleaning it. I realize it would be very helpful for her if I popped in with my cleaning supplies and just insisted on helping out! Also, thanks for including our
My boys are at the age where cleaning is something they can do. I need to keep my eyes open to have them do that more often. I know that with one of my neighbors in the past had a hard time just because his eyesight was too poor to see the crumbs on the counters and tables. Just wiping those down helped him feel so much better about his quality of life!
I find it so hard to put myself out there to do things like this. In fact I was trying to track down a post this morning that I read somewhere about just that. Last night I gave $5 to a guy sleeping in doorway and it kind of brought up guilt that it was too small a thing to do, which reminded me of the post about how sometimes giving opens up unexpected feelings.
I can see what you mean, Kiri! Some days it takes a great deal of courage, faith, and willingness to 1) serve, even in a small way, and 2) do it even though you might feel it too small an offering. At the same time, when I was going through a particularly hard time, a friend watched my kids four two hours. Even though she couldn't heal me physically, pay my bills, or ensure that everything
Yes those small things that give you hope, or if not hope, somehow peace knowing you are cared for. So powerful. Heard of another childhood cancer relapse in our community today, wondering how I can help. Freezer meals I am thinking, but nothing seems like enough, even though I know how those things made a difference to me. Wish I was not working full time! One of the fantastic things at our
Such wonderful ideas!! And such an important message/lesson. Thank you for sharing at Sharing Saturday!!
Some more great ideas, thanks for the list! Thanks for linking up last week, hope you join The Chirping Moms every weekend for our Super Summer Saturday:) <br /><br />Julie<br />www.thechirpingmoms.com
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GREAT article! as an Activity Director at a nursing home, I am always excited to see families teaching their children that the nursing home is not a scary place (as I thought when I was a kid) and that there are lots of Grandmas and Grandpas that need some extra love! Thank you!
I would love to help elderly people even if im 13 its a good oppotunity for me to help them all the best xx
Yes, you are right! You can make a difference at the age of 13. We need more people like you that seek out ways to help others. Good luck with your service project and let me know if you need any help. Cheers! Sheila